It's easy to blame the outside world for the lack of a relationship in your life. But deep down, if you know anything about the law of attraction, then you know it's you that's creating this situation.
This isn't a dig at you; it's just a pointer to the truth. The good news is, you can see that all the power in your life, lies within you!
All it takes is a change in your perception of life, relationships and men in general. Once you change your perceptions, you can then refocus and attract the man of your dreams using the law of attraction.
Once you finish reading this article, you can get started on this right away!
So let's take a look at what you need to change within yourself in order to attract what you want in your life, and not what you don't want.
Remember the law of attraction is ALWAYS working for you, regardless of whether you're attracting a positive or negative situation.
If you keep focusing on what you don't like about yourself, then your reality will keep bringing your more stuff that you don't like!
If you believe that you're not good enough for a relationship, or that you don't feel worthy of being loved, then you will keep getting that reflected back to you in your relationships in life.
You need to learn to love yourself for the creator that you are. You are perfect as a being. There may be imperfections about yourself that you don't like, but you can learn to allow the things you don't like about yourself, and appreciate the growth that your imperfections provide.
Once you learn to love yourself and learn to love the continual growth that will occur in your life, then you will begin to attract wonderful juicy and loving relationships into your life.
That is how powerful of a creator you are.
If you treat others with a negative attitude, then that is what you will get back from them.
Not every man that you meet in your life will be your dream man. Some men will be perfect for that moment in your life, and as you grow you move on to someone else.
But treat everyone how you would like to be treated yourself. This will raise your internal vibration and will cause you to attract better and better people into your life.
If you keep thinking the same things over and over again, then you will keep getting the same results.
Take the time to look at your dominant thought patterns. If you step back and observe what you're thinking, you will be surprised at the amount of negative thinking that goes on in your mind.
Your mind is simply a programmed computer. So once you become aware of thought patterns that don't serve you, or are negative, you can now drop those patterns and begin to think better thoughts.
Do this for 30 days, and work on removing your focus from negative thought patterns, and placing your focus on more positive patterns.
You will find your overall happiness begin to improve, positive thinking will become habitual, and your reality will dramatically change for the better. If you're trying to manifest your ex back, then this is the most powerful thing you can do. Your happiness will return, and you will understand that your happiness doesn't depend on them
So that's it! It really is that simple. All it takes is a subtle and gradual change within, and your reality will change.
If you focus on feeling better about yourself. Life knows your desires, so let the law of attraction sort out the details, and make your focus be about feeling better.
That's all you need to know, there is no effort required unless it feels fun to do so!